By Yusuf Boluwatife
One thing you should understand is that only those wish to stay can be kept. So don’t be too hard on yourself if your man continues to cheat or exhibits signs of infidelity. Some people are natural cheats.
You can keep your man to yourself and yourself only, as it is normal for humans, irrespective of gender. Here are things you can do to keep your man.
• Debunk the belief or saying that “he is a man, he will cheat”
Darling ladies, there are men who don’t cheat. In fact, we have men who go extra miles for their loved ones; they show genuine love and care for their partners. Resist the urge to make excuses for a cheating man.
• Help your partner to stay committed
Yes, you read right! Help your partner to stay committed to you. If you had attracted your partner while you were model-slim or fair, there is no reason you should become as fat as “Madam Cash” overnight or as black as charcoal in the blink of an eye. And if your man is the type that likes ‘awon omo thicker body’, keep the thickness and don’t become lean overnight. Keep the same energy — that smile, bodily features, ‘vibe’ that attracted him.
• Correct him when he is wrong
Surely, men will always be men, but nobody knows all. You shouldn’t always let your man carry all the responsibilities on his own. Be that shoulder he can lean on. Asides from being his wife/fiancee/girlfriend, you must be that friend who corrects him when he’s wrong. However, mind your tone while doing this as men love to be respected. Correct him with love and show him that you’re always there for him.
