By Ghazali Ibrahim
Social media has erupted in debate following popular Nigerian singer Reekado Banks’ unexpected announcement that he is no longer proceeding with his planned wedding to his longtime partner and mother of his child.
Just two months ago, the award-winning artist, born Ayoleyi Hanniel Solomon, had excitedly revealed that wedding plans were underway, describing the relationship as a stable and joyful one.
But in a new interview that aired this week, Reekado made a surprising U-turn, admitting that he is no longer sure about going ahead with the marriage.
“I was pretty sure about my stance at my last interview, but I’m now in a different place,” he said.
“It’s only been two months since the interview. That’s why I said I can’t really say anything about it now. I was sure then, but I’m not sure now. It’s now based on experience.”
He attributed the change of heart not to his career but to his personal development:
“I wouldn’t blame it on music but on myself and my emotional intelligence, which I am still working on.”
The singer’s comments have triggered a storm of reactions across X, Instagram, and TikTok, with fans, critics, and relationship experts all weighing in.
“Respect to Reekado Banks for being honest. A lot of people get married unsure and end up miserable,” one user posted on X.
“But why announce the wedding plans in the first place if you weren’t ready?” another countered.
On Instagram, users flooded his most recent post with mixed comments with some urging him to make amends with his partner, others applauding him for choosing clarity over pressure.
“Emotional intelligence matters. It’s better to pause than pretend,” wrote @\_lifeofonyi.
“I hope he’s not leaving her to raise their baby alone. That’s not emotional intelligence,” said another user.
Reekado and his girlfriend welcomed a baby boy in November 2024, and introduced him to the public in December.
For many fans, the wedding seemed like a natural next step, and the reversal has reignited conversations about commitment, co-parenting, and public figures making personal announcements too soon.
Several users questioned whether his rising visibility in the music scene again might have influenced his decision.
The singer, who had kept a relatively low profile following the death of his mother in 2022, has been more active recently releasing new music and making public appearances.
