By Latiifah Amusan
Nollywood actor Alesh Sanni shared his disappointment and concerns over the recent divorce of his colleague, Bolanle Ninalowo, and his wife, Bunmi Ninalowo.
The actor expressed his distress at the disheartening rate of divorces happening worldwide and candidly revealed his own fears about marriage.
Sanni began by reminiscing about the time when the Ninalowos had given him and his wife marital advice, and how they had looked up to the couple as role models.
He highlighted the value he places on family, emphasizing that seeing his parents happily together for over 30 years brings him immense joy.
However, his admiration for successful marriages contrasts with his fears and uncertainties.
He confessed to being terrified of marriage, questioning if he would make the right choice in a life partner.
Sanni pondered the possibility of falling in love with the wrong person, leading to marital unhappiness.
His emotional post raised questions about trust, loyalty, and the challenges faced by men in today’s society.
He concluded his message by seeking divine intervention and expressing his desire for a successful marriage despite his fears.
He wrote,
“So sad about all these happening about marriage, because the people who gave my wife and I marriage advice years back just left each other.
Those I look up to and I want the best for them after many years.
I’m just so scared of marriage. I dunno what to do anymore and I love family. God, seeing my parent together every day gives me so much joy and happiness. After 3/ years of their marriage. I wish to have the same but not sure it’s gonna work.
What if I marry the wrong person? What if I love the wrong person, So many things keep bothering my mind.
I dunno what to do anymore. This is just so sad… Can this be a trust issue?
Can this be loyalty?
I can’t think straight cos this one weakens me.
God gives us all it takes to give my marriage cos I’m scared.
I just want you all to know MEN are going through a lot as well”.
